I'm trying to improve my shooting. I have been using outdoor, cloudy/indirect lighting, center (or selected) point AI/Servo autofocus; shooting at f/2.8-f/4. Shooting fast moving kids I can't imagine being able to properly manually focus.
My problem is that despite my carefully making sure the focus point is exactly on the eyes, the camera only seems to properly focus on the eyes about 1/3 of the time, the rest of the time it seems to catch their hair/shoulders/something else and their eyes/face is softer & OOF.
I am using the XTi/400D and Tamron17-50 lens. I had the same problem when I used my kit 18-55 lens as well. For older kids I can perhaps freeze them long enough to manually focus, but what can I do to help toddler shots? Do you think it is user error, or more likely a body or lens issue?
I hope it really isn't all the lens, b/c I just wasted some $ I should have saved for the upgrade if that is the case. Here are two examples. In both, somehow it seemed to focus on his clothing, but I had the eye exactly centered in the AF point, taking up the entire AF point in my viewfinder, and I know it wasn't because he was moving b/c the pictures immediately before and after had him in the same spot.


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