A good tripod/head combo for me has been a few different things. The head I prefer is the Cullmann Magnesit 35Nm. It's more than capable of holding the weight of the Bigmos and more. It is rated to hold 66 pounds, and while I haven't put 66 pounds on it, I've put some heavy weight on it, not only a gripped body/Bigmos, but a pair of Stellarvue 20x85mm binoculars as well. And for those who want to know, the binos are actually 20x100mm stopped down to 85mm, so they're heavier than typical 85mm binos.
I've also put a gripped body, Sigma 180mm f/3.5 macro on top of a macro rail on top of it, and it holds perfectly.
Tripods, well, I'm a little silly when it comes to tripods. Coming from a mechanical background I know that there are better and there are worse; however, most decently-priced tripod legs are okay. So far I've used three different sets of legs with great results: a set of Dolica Proline carbon fiber, a DynaTran 858, and currently a Manfrotto 055XPROB. All three do quite well for holding gear, but to be honest, a tripod is just three legs and a hub. like I said, I'm silly about tripods. If the legs don't flex under a fair amount of weight, it's good to me.
The DynaTran is heavy, but I prefer it to be. It's oddly the same exact dimension as the Manfrotto 055XPROB, imagine that. I stood them side by side and extended them, each leg extension was the same height, and with the column extended, they were exact within a millimeter or two. But, the 055XPROB has the added joy of a horizontal center column, which is why I bought it. I wanted it for getting ground-level macro work.
So, to make a long story short, here's my take on tripods and heads, for any amount of gear or weight: Either something you know is going to be good, like the 055XPROB, or even the 055X that doesn't have the horizontal center column, or a set of DynaTran 858 (which is an excellent tripod) or similar. Put the Cullmann on top and you're all set to go.
Now, if you want to know about gimbal heads, that's a different story. I bought the "India" gimbal (as it was tagged years ago, since it comes from India), changed the saddle plate and dovetail plate for something that mated better, changed the knobs, and turned it into an excellent gimbal. Smooth, perfect motion. A lot cheaper than a Wimberly or similar, and works just the same.
What can I say, I'm a cheap bastard.