First, thank you all for the great Stickies and links. I'm a little overwhelmed with it all, though, so was hoping that you kind souls could help narrow things down a little for me.
My gear: 40D, no grip, and the 100-400 or 70-200 2.8 IS are the largest lenses I own right now. I'm sure at some stage I will be adding a long prime, but that isn't going to happen in the near future...I would guess at least a year.
My uses: portrait shoots for groups (like at a school ball or daycare etc) and evening sports outside under "lights". I will likely use it for scenics and the like, too, but at the moment I am not finding much time for that. My tripod will not get used every day or even every week most of the year, but when I want it, I want to know it works.
My criteria: super light isn't a priority as I won't be doing a lot of air travel with this tripod and I won't be doing a lot of long hikes, so probably something in the middle will do. I don't want something super heavy as I will be doing some 10-30 minute walks to where I need to be and do not have an assistance.
My budget: well, I really don't know. I'd *like* to stay below $400 if at all possible, but understand that a tripod is something that needs to be right the first time.
I've been putting off buying a tripod for months now as I just get too overwhelmed with the choices and trying to figure out how best to use my cash.


