Hey guys, trying to get an opinion here. I'll try to make the story short. I was asked to video a wedding - I'm not a videographer, I'm a photographer but I just bought a new HD camcorder and they didn't have a videographer. I was going anyway and offered to help. Before I knew them, the bride and groom picked a wedding photographer, the photographer took their engagement shots. Well, the couple really disliked them and for good reasons. But they stayed with the photographer for the wedding - shrug.
I had a Strobist meetup planned and I invited them to come down and we'll make sure they get some shots. Good and good - I tried to be fair and balanced and make sure the images were not up for sale until the original photographer had their chance. I figured it was only fair since they are the paid photographer and they deserved any print sales.
As a wedding present, I took one of the better shots, did a little post processing on it and framed it nicely. Put on a little card stating who it was from and it went with all of the other presents.
Today, the photographers put in the web gallery for the bride and groom a photo of my shot, in the frame, with the card conveniently removed. Keep in mind that even though I did video the wedding, I took plenty of still images and even made sure to tell the photographers that if I were in their way to let me know. I've been sitting on the video and the images and haven't delivered anything to the bride and groom. I don't want to hurt the contract photographers' sales but this has got me baffled.
What does everyone else think? How would you feel? If you were photographing a wedding and someone gave the bride and groom a framed portrait, would you take a re-creation of it?
I'm on the fence, do I let it slide? Do I create a gallery of that one shot and sell it for a quarter a piece (taking a loss just to make sure nobody buys a stolen print from the original photogs?).
Is this an innocent location shot or an attempt at making a few bucks on an (if I do say so myself) awesome PP job? As soon as I gave that to the bride's mother she started crying and asked why I wasn't photographing the wedding. Whoops.
Thanks for your input, not trying to start trouble, step on toes or anything but really unsure how I should feel about it. I still feel burned because during the wedding and even a cookout a week later for the whole family I stood up for these people saying that I'm sure the photos will be fine. Even after they were sweating bullets and convincing themselves that they would be crummy - why I have no idea. I'm not about slamming anyone and have never said an unkind word about these people. Sure, I can (as we all could) nit-pick over every shot, but really, to the client they're fine.
-John