nicksan wrote in post #5894054
You mean grownups obey the guard, and go crying to the guard's supervisor afterwards?

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OK, you have a point. We are all jerks!

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How very "grownup" of you...

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Nice pic.

Yup, you got it. Yes, grownups avoid confrontation where such confrontation does more harm than good, or shows disrespect for the other people in the group or in the area (many of whom are there for religious reasons). Yes, we are all jerks ("There is none who is righteous; no, not one"). Yes, it is grownup to circumvent stupid rules without putting the guard or the guide, neither of whom had any say in the rule, in the position of being the heavy. And, yes, grownups still get the pic.
There is nothing to be gained by escalating a confrontation, and much to be lost. Quietly obeying the guard and then carrying one's convictions to his supervisors is not being cowardly, nor is it being a crybaby. It gives the system a chance to work.
If, of course, that's what really happened.
(Of course, it is dangerous to try and be funny and serious in the same post, and this isn't the first time I've been shown that lesson.)
Rick "who would also like to hear the other side of the story" Denney