1: In "Understanding Exposure" it says this. I have had good results using this rule. It depends on iwhat mode you are in as to what you set on your camera. For a 20D, if you are in AV or TV, turn you dial (back of camera) until your meter shows the -2/3 when pointed at a green subject. Leave it set to this if you are metering off of green plant life. If using Manual (recommended) point your camera at green plant life and adjust your settings until the meter reads -2/3. This will effectively do the same thing as before, except that the camera will not attempt to change your settings in between shots.
Push/pull is a film reference that does not apply much to digital, since you can change your ISO as you see fit. It is more of an issue when you only have one type of film (400), but you need the shutter speeds afforded by another film (800). You would shoot as if you had ISO 800 film loaded, but tell the processor to "push" it 1 stop. If you should have used ISO 1600, you would tell them to push it 2 stops.
2. The "blinkies" are the parts of the image that cannot be brought back with image editing software (simple explanation). Completely blown out (super simple).
3. It should, but I turned it off right away (like eigga) so I can't comment exactly. It annoyed the snot outta me. Have a look at this:
https://photography-on-the.net/forum/showthread.php?t=46965
If you learn to use Back Button Focussing early on, it will help you meter in the future.