Wilt wrote in post #6192054
I always put my flash on a bracket over the lens axis, so shadows are not often apparent...only when the bride's arm is across her body and throws a shadow on her body (not unlike my ruler shadow example, which is one reason I did that comparison) I may have to shoot photos of myself tonite (if the server can survive my photos!)
OK, ran a quick test a moment ago, close up of the only portion of the image which shows the shadow! Shot at 20' shooting distance, f/4 1/250, off-white room with 8' ceiling, wall/window blinds about 2' behind me. First shot, bare lens Metz 54MZ flash; second shot Metz 54MZ with Wescott Micro Apollo (5" x 7" softbox). For these shots, I did not bother to use a flash bracket, but simply mounted the flash in the hotshoe.
Yes, shadow edges are not dramatically softened at that distance, the shadow edge on my body, behind the hand, is sharper than the shadow edge on the wall 2' back. The shadow edge change, caused by the softbox use, is more noticeable on the wall. The shadow contrast certainly is reduced, making the shadow much less obtrusive.