You want it all for $200 and thats just not possible.
Triggers:
check out ebay for some cheap (and from what I have heard unreliable triggers and receivers). I don't have a link or know the exact make of them, but you could goggle "ebay wireless flash triggers" and find them, no prob. I think you could get two receivers and a trigger for around $60 or so.
For about $200 you could get Alien Bee gear (one trigger, two receivers) No experience with them; however I have heard they are a good choice for the budget shopper who wants more quality than the ebay triggers offer. Forget ETTL, if your going to get into the strobist thing then you don't really need it anyways.
Stand.
I have two Bogen Nano stands; they are very small and light, but not too sturdy. Great for small flash if some sort of weighting is used. They retail for around $70 a piece. Cheaper stands are out there, but you get what you pay for. There are a lot of choices for decent stands in the $70 price range. There are lots of entry stands for cheaper as well.
Don't forget about umbrellas and the bracket to mount you flashes to the stands (around $20-$30 a piece for these items).
You could do it for $200, but do you really want to.
Bottom line is that my advise would be to get the AB triggers and then by the stands and umbrellas as you get some more cash. Or if you have $300, the AB's, one cheap stand, and an umbrella.
Hopefully some other members will chime on this as well.