Its my 5th wedding anniversary on the 31st so the wife will have me by the short and curlies if I don't spend time with her. I'd bring her to the meet but we've only got one camera between us.
Bring her to the meet and get her to carry the rest of your gear while you just have the camera. Seems like a fair deal if you ask me. 

Hope you have a fab time! 




They really went to a lot of effort too! With all those "working" Macbook Wheels ( 
