The problem, Pam, is that in mixed light, a gray card is not a lot of help. It is like standing in the shade and using a gray card while shooting out under the trees for a landscape. Unless your graycard is where the light is, it's not a lot of help. Mixed lighting is difficult, gray card or not. 
I definitely agree that you do not want typically want strong color casts. (Sometimes we do.) But that can typically be corrected with the white balance sliders by eye.
I don't deny that there are times when color is critical. For a scientific book on hydrangeas, I'd want accurate color. For my framed prints of hydrangea, I want pleasing color. That typically means extra contrast, extra saturation, etc. Was it what my eye saw? Probably not. Was it what my min'd eye saw while I was composing the shot. Yes.
If you shoot a JPEG, you should use a gray card or other reference to get the white balance right. Adjusting it in PP is not a cost-free edit. When you shoot RAW, however, you can whack the white balance around cost-free.
Cheers,
Mitch