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Nov 18, 2008 00:50 |  #1

I realize I have a problem and I am very shy with my photography. I don't have this problem with a point and shoot but only when I carry around an SLR with a big tripod. I always feel as though people are looking at me and I try to stand around for too long.

Does anyone else have this problem? Please help me, what can I do to stop this feeling I'm having?


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Nov 18, 2008 00:55 |  #2

I have the same problem when trying to do some street photography. Don't really have a solution though...




  
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Nov 18, 2008 00:57 |  #3

I know what you mean. I don't like being conspicuous either, but people are naturally curious.

I would look at it the other way round. Assume you aren't being looked at until you notice otherwise. If someone is watching, acknowledge them and say hello, then carry on with what you are doing. It should remove any tension if you do that.

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Nov 18, 2008 02:40 |  #4

Not so long ago I had this problem. One day I went out and didn't care who was watching. Since then I have been a lot less shy.

Amazingly, me having my camera round my neck, I get more people walking past me and saying hello than I would get otherwise. I've had a few people stop me and ask me about my gear too.


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Nov 18, 2008 02:46 |  #5

concentrate on what you are doing, check your settings, look for an image, and you'll find it'll go away



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Nov 18, 2008 02:50 |  #6

Listen to an iPod - I find that immersing yourself in music at the same time makes you less aware of the people around you.


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Nov 18, 2008 05:26 |  #7

Your shyness may be mixed in with, or mistaken for a little bit of fear. Problem is, nowadays it's periodically justified. You never know how somebody will react when a camera is pointed at them. Many years ago I was assaulted when taking a news shot (even though I was standing next to a police officer!), and a couple years back was threatened when someone warned "You turn that camera in my direction and I'll kill you." Don't be shy, but do be careful.


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Nov 18, 2008 06:23 |  #8

I agree with canned heat - I just had that happen. But 99.999% of the time it is a conversation starter. I have met some of the most wonderful people while out using my camera. It is a device that cuts across all ethnic, age and gender divides. Use it in that fashion, who knows you may meet someone really cool, make life long friends and then capture award winning images. Yes we stick out like a sore thumb and under certain circumstances that is not a good thing. But by and large, that is part of the fun.


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Nov 18, 2008 06:45 |  #9

Try finding a buddy to go and shoot with. You feel less embarrassed when there are 2 of you. Also can be very good for improving your photography as they might see things from a diferent angle than you (literally!)


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Nov 18, 2008 11:39 |  #10

rc13k wrote in post #6708839 (external link)
I don't have this problem with a point and shoot but only when I carry around an SLR with a big tripod.

Other photographers discovered this a long time ago: if your equipment makes you feel conspicuous, use inconspicuous equipment. A high quality point-and-shoot camera might be a better choice than something that makes you look like a photographer on the prowl. :)




  
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Nov 18, 2008 12:00 |  #11

Take a buddy with you. I find that i get nervous and such when i am walking around town with my gear. Not sure if i am worried about what people think or looking over my shoulder worried someone is going to try and snatch my camera.

I found that getting friend involved letting him shoot with my back up if need be takes the edge off and makes it much more fun.

Or i just love to grab my gear and head off into the bush.


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Nov 18, 2008 14:33 |  #12

DC Fan wrote in post #6711372 (external link)
Other photographers discovered this a long time ago: if your equipment makes you feel conspicuous, use inconspicuous equipment. A high quality point-and-shoot camera might be a better choice than something that makes you look like a photographer on the prowl. :)

The G-series are great for this... now if only I can afford one.




  
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Nov 18, 2008 19:55 |  #13

Are the G series really THAT good?! I know nothing about them. I know there are people with Leicas that are easily disguised from unknowing onlookers as standard p&s.


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Nov 18, 2008 20:06 as a reply to  @ Mum2J&M's post |  #14

You're certainly not alone. I tend to feel like that a lot, as I've always been a, well, if not shy, at least the sort of person to shun attention. I often realise that I'm trying to rush a shot so that I'm not standing there conspicuously for too long. Obviously the quality of your work suffers when you start doing things like that.

I just tell myself that I don't care what others are thinking or if they're looking, I'm doing my own thing for my own reasons. I focus on what I'm doing and ignore everything else. At the end of the day, getting the shot you want is what matters. Those people looking at you weird don't care that you went home devastated because you missed that great shot, and likewise when you've got an awesome picture hanging on your wall, you won't care (or even remember) that some random stranger thought you were a bit nuts.


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Nov 18, 2008 20:22 |  #15

Drink a beer or two when you go shooting. I used to do that when I was in japan and it completely takes away and nervousness.


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