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Jan 26, 2009 22:51 |  #16

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I don't know, it just kind of put me off a little bit is all, there are about a dozen things you can say about the subject. I didn't see a boy with Autism, I saw a boy with a story to tell, a boy who had a lot going on in his brain, etc.

I see your point about story behind the photo, but the reason I got into photography is because a good photo (like this one) IS the story.

Hi Honduh, I agree with you on some level and I did hesitate to put the extra information online but a photo can't always capture the whole story. And especially in the case of autism, even though it is a very pervasive disorder, most people can't tell just by looking at him or when they briefly encounter him. And then perhaps you might not see the bigger significance of my son looking into the lens so intently and calm at the same time. Perhaps it also has to do with my own acceptance and embracing of his condition, why should I hide it? I am proud of that little boy and I would not change a thing about him if I could, as hard as it may be sometimes. It's hard to be confronted with your own demons (I don't like to be in the spotlight) but for your kid you do it. And you come out a better, more balanced and stronger person. I know you didn't mean it like that but I'm just giving you some background information about my own reasoning so that you can better understand me :). No harm done, no offence taken, life is too short for that.

For the record and more on topic on POTN, I do have other photos of my son looking into the lens (and having the 55-250mm Kit Lens makes it easier) but this one really struck a cord with me. The first time I saw it, I was mesmerized, almost hypnotized by it. I couldn't stop staring at it.

Here are more typical images of him :-).

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He was very busy with the different states of matter and particularely gas and in this picture he is full of air ;).

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This one always makes me laugh, we were playing hide and seek ;). He does have a good sense of humour although irony and sarcasm are lost on him 100%.

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I simply *love* this picture but it's blurry because he was moving about so much.

He's full of energy and can be all over the place. He's never been able to sit still and with the kit lenses it's not always possible to capture the moment. Because the moment you point the camera at him, he moves towards you, wants to grab the camera and see the image that you just took. He's just curious but getting him to pose is quite extra ordinary but we're getting there.

So thanks again everybody for the nice comments (about Matthies and the photo) and for the tips.

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Jan 26, 2009 23:46 |  #17

Lovely photos again :) the bucket one makes me laugh too, the last shot may be a bit blurry but id call it a keeper all the same :)..

P.s sorry for answering for you before with the comment made, i think i'm a little sensitive with the subject.




  
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Mar 10, 2009 15:21 |  #18

Great shot. I have an 8 year old girl with autism and also love being able to capture shots. (She doesn't like to sit for the camera or look at it)


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Mar 12, 2009 13:55 as a reply to  @ coralnutz's post |  #19

The Title got my attention when browsing through, and when I saw the picture, I didn't need to read anything, as his eyes & face tells his own story.
Great capture, lovely looking lad and thanks very much for sharing this with us.;)

Ps, we are among special needs children here also.;)


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Mar 16, 2009 09:58 |  #20

Looking at that first picture--couldn't help but feel both sad and thrilled for you. I have an autistic son as well--high functioning, but there are always problems to deal with. Mine also is almost never still. I'm actually going to try and take some shots of him today, and I'm really unsure how successful I'll be. Regardless...that first pic is a keeper, as is that last blurry shot. Cute young man, and I wish you both much success as he grows to adulthood. I agree with all those who thought the little bit of the story helps to make the pic more real to us... Thanks for sharing


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Mar 16, 2009 12:06 |  #21

I love this shot and kudos on getting such amazing eye contact with the lens! As an SLP I am searching for eye contact all the time when working with my children with Autism...maybe I should bring my camera along on my home visits sometimes! :)
Great shot, beautiful boy.


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