pixelbasher wrote in post #7593284
This is the thing that's messing with my head Joe.
Not ever having used this focal length at 2.8 I don't know how often I will need it. I haven't even used a 200 at F4 yet, let alone F2.8! Sometimes I will need the bigger hole, other times it won't matter I'm sure. See here's the thing, you said you posted the photos to show me the difference in the sharpness at different settings, I thought they were all good in my eyes, which tells me I'm pondering too much!

Quite honestly, people fret about lens sharpness too much. Now, that's not to say that sharpness is not important, but the sharpness is more a function of having the subject within the DOF and accurate focus than it is a function of the lens, at least for the lenses you are considering.
I am simply not a fan of people saying "this lens is sharp" or "this lens is soft" without posting images to accompany their opinions. The reason I am not a fan is that I've seen many images hailed as sharp that I considered soft, and many lenses derided as soft that I used and printed quite large with and had no issues. This is why I always link pics to accompany my opinions -- the pics put my opinion in context.
So, quite honestly, IQ is not the differentiator here. The considerations are size, weight, price, speed, and IS. If it were me, I'd do what I did an go all primes, since I'm a speed whore, the primes are smaller and lighter in that range, and I rarely have difficulty finding and framing a good shot at the focal length I'm using. But there are times I'd sure like IS.
Thus, based on what you've said, my best guess would probably be to get the 70-200 / 4L IS and add faster primes for the focal lengths in the range that you need (85 / 1.8, 100 / 2, 100 / 2.8 macro, 135 / 2L, 150 / 2.8 macro, 200 / 2.8L) if you find that you need speed on occasion.
Others, however, would say just to bite the bullet and get the 70-200 / 2.8L IS which gives the best compromise of speed and IS in the range. They will argue that it weighs less than the primes, but you don't have all the primes on your camera at once. So, your backpack is lighter with the 70-200 / 2.8L IS, but the camera-lens combo you're using is lighter with primes, as it is with a 70-200 / 4L IS.
I also think I am getting stuck thinking that in low light I will always use 2.8 to get me out of trouble, but of course the DOF will suffer and I may not want to go that shallow, in that case the F4 with it's IS would be better to me. And my 50D seems to deal with high ISO so much better than the old 20D I used to use.
All valid points, to be sure. But to me, the only times DOF "suffers" is when it's stopped down past f/2.8. : )
I am trying to cover all bases with one lens, AND trying to save money, this is where the problem starts! If the 2.8 with IS wasn't so much more money, I would already have one and be done with it.
The problem continues as I like to shoot everything, so when people ask about certain circumstances, I can answer yes to all of them. I don't soley shoot birds, or motorsport, or kids, or partys, or landscapes, I'll take a photo of anything! And there's no real one thing that I shoot the most.
Fortunately, my photography is more narrow in scope. And for the times I delve outside my usual realm of shallow DOF kid pics, I have plenty of time to pick and choose the proper lens. It's quite rare that I find myself needing to be at 70mm one moment and 200mm the next. But for those that find themselves in that situation, a zoom is the way to go. And for those that choose the zoom, if it's a rare moment that you need f/2.8, then perhaps you might be willing to sacrifice those few lost captures for the convenience of a smaller and lighter lens for the rest of your shooting.
I appreciate everyones patient input here, I know I will be happy with whatever I buy, I just like to be sure in my head that when I hand over the coin, it's what I really want/need.
Well, I'm not patient -- just bored. : ) Basically, all the choices you're considering are outstanding. If you are not pleased with your choice, it's because you found you have specialized needs that you didn't realize you had.