I agree with your post, except for the urban legend in red!
A 'normal' lens by convention is (about) the diagonal measure of the frame. 135 film format, being 24x36mm has a diagonal of 42mm, but the convention of 'about 50mm' was adopted decades ago, and we see 135 film cameras with 40-58mm normal lenses as delivered from the factories, between the 60's and 90's.
The 'like a human eye' is totally bogus. An ophthamologist will confirm that the acuity for the human eye is in a VERY NARROW cone of vision. The peripheral vision is very wide, yet it is horrible for detail, and mostly good for detection of motion (so that nature protects you from predatory animals surprising you!) The only reason you think you have a wide, sharp field of vision is that your eye constantly MOVES and your brain constantly INTEGRATES all of it into a single scene!
But I'm not addressing ophthamologists nor referring to the eye in ioslation, I am referring to the human eye as most of us experience it, i.e., normal visual perception from within the context of the entire human visual system including muscles and nerves and brain and human being.

