My wife calls my camera "she" or "her". As in, "Oh, what is SHE doing here???" Or, "Oh, I see you brought HER along..." Man I love her though...pretty fond of my wife as well.
Funny - thats how i feel as well
Im happy to call mine toys - this is a hobby, i havent made any money of them so they stay as being toys.
Now when i start making money and taking over the world (insert evil laugh here), they will become tools.

Seems like a treat to me ... 
