You have to understand the way light works. By photographing the image in the mirror, you're not photographing the image itself, but the light reflected by the mirror. It's really no different than photographing a framed picture. The light from the reflected image is only travelling the distance from the mirror to your camera. For that matter, the issue of DoF is moot. The mirror "flattens" the original image, so it's 2 dimensional and there's no DoF. Your entire reflected image will be in focus (assuming you focused correctly) whether you use f/2 or f22. In the above example, the only reason the mirror frame is out of focus is because it's not in the same plane as the mirror itself. Which I think is what the poster was trying to illustrate, but I don't believe that's what you were asking.