I was lucky enough to be allowed to handle a 500D yesterday,straight from the box, at my local retailer.
First impressions:
- great looking screen
- the VF looks quite bright
- the rubber on the grip has been improved, the grip feels better than ever before
- the sound the shutter makes is very impressive, sounds like quality
- the body feels quite well made compared to the 400D, and also feels better than the 450D
- it is quite a bit more expensive than the 450D, almost as expensive with 18-55 IS as the (naked) 50D
I didn't believe my eyes, so I tried quite a few more shots, just to confirm what I saw in that first portrait. Wow, I am impressed!
I was considering getting a 50D as a second or third body, but I think I will settle for a 500D now. I do like small cameras, even though it did feel a bit awkward at first having handled only xxDs and the 5D the last year and a half. I reckon a 500D is in my future, as backup and travel camera next to the 5D II.
Just wanted to share.
Kind regards, Wim

...which is a shame because I love the small form factor.
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