If useing eval...it senseses the entire view, so you have to fill the entire view with the card, if you are spot metering, you only have to fill the area the camera uses as a spot.
Don't use a gray card at all for Evaluative. Evaluative is looking for a scene to match with its database. Don't confuse the computer.
From the back of my Kodak Gray Cards packaging:
"The KODAK Gray Card is a consistent neutral test target..."
"The KODAK Gray Card is an invaluable aid for ... optimal color rendering..."
While that doesn't pin-point color neutrality, it certainly does point that way...
There are lots of companies marketing products for white balancing all quibbling about this and that. Marketing, marketing, marketing.
The fact is, the Kodak card is good enough for any light your eye accepts as white. When you get into weird stuff that even your eyes tell you is a crime against nature (like sodium vapor), or then you need a card with more perfect response.
But in those cases, your best option is to shoot raw and take a picture of the card to click-balance in during conversion.