After using both, I highly recommend Aperture 2 over Lightroom. Both are very comparable, but Aperture will make better use of your multi-core cpu and graphics hardware.
Some other benefits of Aperture: are built-in backup system. Tight integration with the OS, and scriptable.
But in the end you really can't go wrong with either option.
In terms of Photoshop, many Mac users are starting to switch to Pixelmator ($60.00). http://www.pixelmator.com/
. Gimp is also an option.

