I don't often shoot wide open, simply because I like having a bit more depth of field than wide open gives me. Also, regarding the "sweet spot", different lenses will have different characteristics, and it's useful to get to know your gear in that regards -- if you have a lens that is noticeably soft wide open, well, that would be good to know. Also if you have a lens that stands out for wide open sharpness, that would also be good to know.
There are exceptions to my tendency to shoot somewhat stopped down, and I am quite comfortable with those exceptions, just like there are times when I'll stop down a bit beyond the "diffraction" f-stop for specific reasons. Get familiar and comfortable with the conditions and "best practices/techniques" of the shooting you do, and things will fall into place.
There will of course be "learning moments" when you get home and review a shot "or maybe a bunch of shots" and your response will be "FAIL!!!", but these can be valuable lessons, not just a time when you want to ditch all your gear and take up another hobbe
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