ok, I have done a fair amount of reading. A while ago went to a lighting seminar so I have a pretty good feeling of inverse rule and basic lighting. I have been using 550 exII with a stofen omnibounce on my 50D. Got some cactus v4's and a light stand and an westcott 43" umbrella that has a white panel for shoot through, or a black backing I can put on it to reflect.
here are my questions for a newbie to remote flash and umbrella.
I know I should keep umbrella and flash roughly 6-8 feet from subject to get best light.
where is a good starting point to set flash power? I know I have to put flash in manual. I do not have a flash meter. I do have a 12" grey target I can use to meter off of. I know with time I will get flash power and what is a good distance. I know I should get a flash meter to get best ratings. What are some good tips and tricks with this setup. This is just a fun hobby right now taking family and friend pictures for the fun of it.
I have some reading to do I know, just some quick, starter tips.

