You're welcome.
Check out Step 7 on page 2 in the Quick Start section of the NexImage manual. You can see it online here:
http://www.celestron.com/c3/images/files/downloads/1126218497_NexImageInstructions.pdf
You have to turn off the Auto checkbox before you can change the shutter speed and gain.
What I usually do with planets is set the gain to minimum and shutter speed to maximum (i.e., slowest), and if the image is completely black, increase the gain slowly until the target shows up, or if the image is overexposed at first, adjust the shutter speed until it looks right. Then if the gain is still below 50%, adjust the shutter speed to a faster setting and bring the gain up to make the image brightness right. I stop these iterations when the gain is near 50%. I don't like to go over 50% with the gain because noise starts creeping in.
Once I find the right combination of gain and shutter speed, I increase the gain temporarily (or make the shutter speed slower) until the sky background is no longer black, then adjust the color balance until the sky background is grey. Then I bring the gain and shutter speed back to the correct values.
For the frame rate, usually around 10 to 20 frames per second works well. The important thing here is not to make the frame rate faster than the shutter speed. For example, if your shutter speed is 1/20, you don't want to shoot 30 frames per second, because your "shutter" (not really a shutter but the electronic equivalent) is still open when the frame ends.
From what I see in the NexImage manual, it doesn't look like their software gives you much control over the color balance. This may be where WXAstroCapture can do you the most good.
Good luck and keep trying, you will get there if you don't give up, and then it becomes much easier.
Don