Middle finger up, the rest down, though you should know, this is considered rude by most. Also reading and learning as much as possible about your subject(s) is always a good idea. A few things that I have learned about birds are that if seem to be heading straight toward them they fly off, if you use a zig zag pattern of walking/crawling and avoid eye contact they seem to ignore you more. Also if you seem smaller than them, they stay better, and birds are creatures of habit and will often revisit the same spot over and over on the way to and from their nest, so that they are "harder to follow" directly to their nest, and get a chance to check for danger.
Just keep in mind that when you are shooting something (especially living) it is important to know as much about what you're shooting as how to shoot it.