My apologies, I didn't mean to come across as rude, I considered my post merely informal, but I needed more smiles. I forget people have different communication styles, and things translate differently to different parts of the world.
Most of the information you needed was in my first post, it was just a little brief. Have a read of the FAQ about EOS flash, then you'll understand the basics. That will teach you about ETTL, preflashes, how slaves work, etc.
In brief, if you're using optical or radio triggered flashes you need to work in manual flash mode. There are exceptions, but they're not important right now. If you just have one flash on your camera ETTL is fine, and works well, once you understand its quirks.
Once you've had a read of the resources, especially the EOS Bible, i'd be happy to help more 