OK, so I understand that all else being equal, the larger the aperture, the shallower the depth of field. Is there anything that comes into play with how aperture affects far away objects? To elaborate, if I photography my daughter at 85mm f/1.8 and get just her head (and maybe a little shoulders) anything 15 ft. or so behind her will be SOLID blur. No definition at all. Can't tell if its trees or grass or how many trees, assuming they're back far enough. Now lets say I add my daughter to the picture and because she isn't exactly on the same plane, I stop down to f/4 to get both faces in focus. Now even trees 50 feet away, I can see. They're blurry, yeah but I don't have that completely blown out background. Is that just a reality of life, too bad so sad?
. But Jerome summed up the contributing factors quite well. However, judging by your description of your needs and circumstances it sounds like you're already on the road to having a good grasp of things. You're getting the basics, and you can play around and observe cause and effect. That's what's really convenient about digital.

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