Wondertwins wrote in post #10782086
Hey guys, I am a rising senior in high school and I was considering to major in photography hopefully at the NYU Tisch program but as I expected, my parents objected. I understand their viewpoint; they are paying a lot of money for their children to take classes about taking pictures and it's not guaranteed that I will come out of college with a nice job to live off of, which is true (I think). They say I should consider photography as a 'hobby' instead of something I will do for the rest of my life and even have a family that can support on this specific profession. I am writing this to you guys because I need some advice and info. Sure they know a lot more than I do on what lies after college but most of the things they say to me about school and life after college are from what their friends say or what they hear from others. This might be a bit personal but for the people who pursued photography as a job, a profession that will support themselves and their family is: Is it THAT hard as people and my parents say? I'm sure some of you might say yes and some of you might say no, but I would like some insight and opinion on this.
This is always a difficult choice. I went through it myself back in the late 80's. Instead of photography, it was music for me. I wanted to go to a music college but my parents were against it. I knew why. I wasn't a stupid kid. I always kept my grades up in H.S. while my friends were flunking out. I was that guy with the long hair and motorcycle jacket who drank and smoked and hung out with all the wrong people, except I had good grades.
I have an Economics degree from NYU. I held a job in Financial Risk Management at a financial institution making decent usage of that degree. Then suddenly I decided it just wasn't for me. I took up computer programming because I felt it was more "creative". That was back in 1997 or so. I've been doing it ever since. My love for music eventually died out and I began photography.
Some say the fact that I don't play music anymore is a shame and a wasted "talent". I absolutely don't feel that way. I lost passion for it. Believe me I had immense passion for it. So much so that it was a source of big amounts of stress from always trying to get better and always trying to chase something that can't be chased. Yada, yada, yada...
I believe I approached it the wrong way and it cost me my love for it. I vowed not to do the same thing with Photography and I am enjoying the heck out of it.
I have a great paying corporate job in I.T. It's a job, but I enjoy it. And I've got my photography. I don't need the money from photography, but it sure is nice having supplemental income, even if it's just enough to reinvest in gear or take a nice vacation.
So there's different ways of doing things.
I can tell you I regret choosing Economics as a major and had I picked anything purely art related, it might have limited me. I wish I had chosen Math, Statistics, or anything with a strong mathematics discipline because that can be morphed into any profession. Maybe not so much in photography, but it will give you more options. Maybe even take a few business classes as it related to photography as electives?
I have friends who went to music college for Jazz. Most if not all of them never finished school because there's really only so much you can learn and they didn't want to end up teaching. They quickly realized that they needed to get out there in the field to get REAL experience. Touring with established Jazz musicians or even more popular groups.
Actually a couple of those guys are now IT guys just like me making a great living. They went back to school for IT, got their degrees, and entered corporate America. Most of those guys still play Jazz, very passionately I might add. They do it for the love of it now. Doesn't make it any less important.
Parents will always be parents. Just know that they want what's best for you.
But I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I chased it for real. Because to be honest with you, if everybody did what I did, we wouldn't have musicians, artists, etc.
There's really only one person who can decide. You. Just make sure you think about everything and explore all options.