While #2 may be blown out a bit, I prefer it over #1 on the basis of composition. Ask yourself this, "What is the objective for image #1?" Are you showing off the lobster, or is this a marketing image for the restaurant? I find it hard to focus on the lobster as there is so much going on... There's the glossy table, which reflects the shadowed underside of the plate. The table also has a pattern. Then there's the napkin-rolled flatware, the candle, and even the seating.
When I look at #2, my eye goes straight to the LOBSTER! By properly using DoF to your advantage, the other objects in the image do not become a distraction. Great composition, nice lighting if not slightly blown out.
Keep up the good work!