I still haven't got my scope collimated spot on, but one thing I did find is that, given the range of adjustment of the collimating screws, the primary mirror can be angled for correct collimation with the mirror at any distance from the open end of the scope. i.e. the collimating screws can be adjusted all the way in, in the middle, or all the way out and the angle of the primary mirror can still be correct. The effect of this in my case was to make it impossible to focus a normal eyepiece, because the focus tube had to be wound all the way out and it still wouldn't quite focus. However, I also noticed that I COULD get prime focus with my DSLR.
It turned out that I had the primary mirror too close to the open end of the scope. Unwinding all the collimating screws equally moved the primary back and allowed me to focus the eyepiece correctly. Unfortunately, this meant that I LOST prime focus with the DSLR! If I can get the primary somewhere in-between, I should be able get both the DSLR and normal eyepieces to focus.
It occurs to me that this might also be the cause of you not being able to get prime focus?
I hope this makes sense.
Rgds,
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