about three weeks ago I was walking home from my in laws place with my wife when we heard some guy sitting in a parked car hollering something at me as we walked past, couldn`t make it out...wife said he`s drunk...never mind. Have had people step onto an elevator and back off once they saw that I was the only other person on it. Have had people panic as they pushed the close button on elevators as I approached. Had another older guy recently say something to me while I was standing in a bar that has open doors in the front, I was chatting with a waitress as he did that....just minding my own business. Have had too many people to count prefer to stand on public transportation than sit next to me. Continue to have shop staff literally flee from me as I walk in the door, and have left too many stores to count because I couldn`t get anyone to serve me. I have no reason to make any of this up...and theres a lot more...when I meet my other foreign friends we exchange stories about the things that happen to us. Had a blond haired blue eyed Canadian woman friend who had much scarier stories about what she experienced at night while walking home alone. I have met more than a few foreigners who came to Japan under contract to teach, went home for Christmas and never came back...some people HAD to leave, they just could not handle it. Now, I always said when it got to be no more fun I would leave and have talked it over with my wife and we decided to begin visa proceedings in the spring to get her into Canada. Told the powers that be yesterday that I will not, under any circumstances, return for a second year at the junior high. I have had some very pleasant experiences while here, had many that were not so pleasant, the thrill is gone and the time has come for me to leave...much of the charm has worn off, Hardest thing will be to leave my brother in laws girls...I hope they will understand why we`re going and it will be toughest on the 4 year old who just loves me to bits, and vice versa. Japan has been an endless photographers dream, and should be experienced by anybody who is attracted to Asia, a trip that will never be forgotten I`m certain. Read up on your rights before coming, they are different from what we North Americans take for granted.