its me wrote in post #11781272
=it`s me;11781272]holy cow... strict `n nasty eh...there are a few...just a few...of my junior highs who push me to see how far they can go...//...but when I grabbed em by the scruff of the neck, they almost cried...
Problem I've got at the moment is that the school I work at a few lessons a week is NOT a state school. The parents are loaded. So, the kids - more often than not - have been brought up thinking they're "automatically" special. My worst student tried to tell me off on Friday for reading out the top marks in an English test (he was the bottom of the school, despite ability), then he threatened to contact the board of education, until I pointed out I'm freelance, no contract, not governed directly and will quite happily drag his parents to the BoE too, to see if they can explain why he thinks it's OK to punch younger children, break the window in the lunchroom, damage furniture, etc...
What a prat, he is. 
Timphoto wrote in post #11781457
interesting about the students. Sounds somewhat like the
"Tiger mom"
child rearing approach that's a hot topic in the current issue of Time magazine.
Thanks for the link. Sounds like about 50% of Japanese parents. And their kids are wonderful, albeit with the odd nervous tick here and there!
richardfox wrote in post #11781612
Hey Sky, thanks for the birthday wish!
You're welcome!
...//Back when I was in high school in the 1960’s, if you gave a teacher a dirty look, you got a weeks worth of detention....
Same for me. I really don't understand where all the "let's treat our child like a prince/princess" thinking has come from. Are parents so stupid/naïve as to think that a child with a computer in their room won't waste half their life online?
yogestee wrote in post #11781654
Yeah Simon,, my boss has often told me to toughen up a bit with my students.. Then again,, I have a great rapport with them..
Ah, but yours are so much older, Jurgen. I had the same with my adult-class last spring. Their motivation comes from within, so that's half the battle won, right there!
tonylong wrote in post #11784491
Man, a day goes by between me checking this thread and it's like a whole day has gone by!



Anyway, Ferris Bueller was on A&E today -- I hadn't seen it in a few years so I ended up watching it. One of the really fun movies of the era!
What a fun movie that was!
And the clothes?!??!!? Hilarious!
Thanks for reminding me of something so lighthearted when "kids" are causing such grief at the moment!
