I've been a little absent recently, only popping in for some joy reading the comments and history lessons.
I can sympathize with the death at this time of year, on Dec 23 my Mother in Law passed from a bleed in the brain. Fortunately is was fairly fast, only 4 days in the hospital. The family is close and the big holidays were very special. We continued with the holidays, sad and sweet.
This was the 4th death in my immediate family this year or so. My sister in Nov 11 from cancer, her son in Feb 12 from suicide and a brother in May from a brain aneurysm.
My MiL was pretty special, and will be the person I miss the most. A rich full life, right there until the end. Soon to be 85 years old.
2012 began in pain, and ended in pain. But there was plenty of good living in there too. Need to remember the good times more than dwelling on the bad.
2013 will be different, I'm changing a few of the major items in my life. I will be getting rid of anything that does not add positively to my life.
On Monday I will be giving notice that I will be retiring in two weeks, just in time for my 55th. After 3 years building a project within a group that did not believe in it, and finally getting it where it needs to be, the management hired an outside manager (buddy of one of the other managers) to take over the project. I'm walking my knowledge out the door.
In February, we are heading for 3 weeks in Hawaii, Kona on the Big Island. A retirement gift to my wife, and I guess mine too.
In the meantime, I will be exploring other contract or part time opportunities as well as building my photography business. I can't stay home, I'd drive my wife nuts! I don't know how to "do nothing".
There are other issues, but they will be ones that count towards me and my family, and some will be sad, but most will be good.
So, I'm a little late in wishing all of you Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! May 2013 be a year of joy and accomplishment!
Year of the Snake, indeed.