It was a bit late when I posted this; sorry if I was ambiguous.
I'm thinking for instance in a church, doing communion pictures..... I get one chance to photograph each child taking communion, about a 3 second time window. I'm 10ft away with my 7D and I have either my 70-200 f4 or 17-50 Tamron; usually flash is permitted; I have one time to get it right...... about 3 seconds; if I'm out of focus I can't retake. I need sufficient depth of field so that all of my images are well focused. I can't use a tripod; gotta keep moving with people walking around, communion not happening at exactly the same point on the floor etc. I want as much background blurred as possible, hence lowest f stop number, as possible..... but I want a safe cushion in terms of depth of focus so that they are all keepers with all body parts in focus.
Should I be able to get all keepers with a 9" depth of field on a side shot of a child and their body?? 6"? 12"? What's the lowest realistic number an experienced person could use and still have good results? I could dial up f/5.6 and be done with it but then my background won't be quite as blurry..... so I'm trying to get a sense of experienced folks' thought process would be in this scenario. If I had my 50mm 1.8 on and tried shooting closer at f/1.8, I'm looking at 6" DOF at 8ft distance. I don't know if I should be thinking 1. I'm dreaming, too sharp, will have some out of focus pics, or 2. Hmm, 6 inches, I should be just fine, if my spot focus hits his neck or his ear, I've got a good enough margin, I should be ok.....
Does that paint a better picture of what I'm looking for?
Thanks