Have you ever hired an interior decorator? Most often, they're hired to solve a single problem, not to redo an entire house. An interior decorator may do nothing more than recommend window coverings, a new floor, or new lamps. So, yes, if the lady wants something new, I'm trying to get her to buy wall portraits instead of new drapes.
You're a very smart guy, and you know when I said "I'm competing for the money she's budgeting for luxuries" that had nothing to do with "redoing the lawn because of his photos."
You're a wedding photographer. You know that when you state a price, a bride has to consider whether to spend more money on you or more money on the open bar or the meals or the flowers or whatever. You're in competition as well with complementary "expenses" (if that's the word you want to use. Your work and your marketing has to be good enough to convince her that it's better to spend more money on your photography than on some other aspect of the wedding.
Else she'd hire a cheaper photographer and have steak instead of chicken.
+1.



