It was not my first wedding, just one of my first...I only did about 5-6.
Anyway, thanks for the help everyone...I called back yesterday like 6 times, from my work phone and from my cell phone. NO answer, then when I called from a phone they would not recognize, the sitter answered...and she didn't seem to be too happy.
Anyway, they didn't call me back...I plan to call them every single day....I will update as it goes along.
Nothing here sounds like you are joking and you make no effort to signal to people that you are exaggerating ... smilies for example.
People weren't trying to "hate you" just to "hate you" but honestly trying to dissuade you from using methods that WOULD HARM YOU ,... you ... you ... you ... professionally ie. the benefit is for you not us.
That's being a jerk to now now bash others FOR YOUR MISTAKE in not making yourself clear about whether you were just kidding or actually behaving this way.
If this is an example of how you react, I'm starting to feel much more sympathy with the nonpaying customer.

