Max Powers wrote in post #11770761
also, when I mess around with it lots and finally get to paint (don't know how I even managed that), it doesn't paint in white, it just reveals the photo underneath it.
OK, you've got it, you just don't realize it yet!
When you paint on the mask you don't see the color of the brush strokes in your edit window, you just see the "effects." What the heck does that mean? Well, "White reveals, Black conceals" -- Any part of the mask that is white will cause the corresponding part of the image that is on the same layer as the mask to be revealed -- that is, to show up. Any part of the mask that is black will cause the corresponding part of the image that is on the same layer as the mask to be concealed -- result? you can see the layer below it. That's exactly what you're trying to accomplish.
To get more fancy, paint on the mask with a low-opacity brush. As a result the masked layer becomes semi-transparent.
So to use your example about eyes, in very simple terms, take a portrait and duplicate the image onto a second layer. Really sharpen it. Great, the eyes "pop" but the skin looks like heck. So add a mask and make the entire mask black, making the sharpened layer disappear. Now take a white brush, set it to a low opacity (20%, say), and start painting over the eyes, gradually revealing the sharpened layer in that area. You may not fully reveal the sharpened eyes, just bring them into view enough to make them look bright and sharp. (Disclaimer: That's just a crude example -- probably not how an accomplished artist would do it.
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